Social Benefits of Second Language Learning
The Isolation of the Monolingual
My second language is French and I love visiting France – after the first week, that is, when my ear has become attuned again to the language. Then I enjoy being able to do the shopping, order a meal in a restaurant, ask for and understand directions, and all the other things that I take for granted when I’m back home in Australia. But, most of all I enjoy being invited into someone’s home for a family meal and being able to sit around the dining table chatting, laughing, joking, and arguing (a favourite French pastime!).
This is in contrast with my experiences in Italy. My wife was born in Italy and migrated to Australia when she was eight. Her English is native-like and we have never spoken to each other in any other language. She speaks perfect Italian (and her French is as good as mine).
When we go to Italy, she has what I imagine is the onerous task of translating for me and negotiating every day transactions such as shopping, ordering meals, and asking directions. Because many of her relatives live in Italy and her family has many friends there we are the lucky recipients of an enormous amount of hospitality which nobody does better than Italians. These are lively and joyous occasions with lots of laughter and brilliant repartee in both standard Italian and the local dialect. I would love to be able to join in and contribute something to the occasion. I am reluctant to ask my wife for a translation because I know that it will remove her from the flow of conversation. So rather than spoil her enjoyment, and because I know that I wouldn’t be able to join in anyway, I assume the role of confused observer, smiling or laughing when it seems appropriate, nodding my agreement at I know not what, and suspecting that I am coming across as being slightly retarded.
After a day of trying to figure out what’s going on and never being entirely sure, stress levels are high and rising to the extent that the title of “grumpy old man” is not entirely unfair. Evening sees me feeling a little better having soothed the stress with a few glasses of the local wine and looking forward to shutting down by watching Italian television. Unfortunately, not even the visual clues can compensate for my lack of language and soon I have drifted off only to be woken an hour or so later with a neck that requires the services of a chiropractor (if only I knew how to explain to one in Italian what ailed me).
The First Step out of Isolation
The last time we went to Italy we met up with my brother-in-law who, to my knowledge was a monolingual speaker of English. He had visited Italy the year before and, I guess, having experienced the frustrations of monolingualism had decided to start learning Italian. As is to be expected, he hadn’t transformed himself into a fluent speaker of Italian in one year. However, on arriving in Italy, he set about making the most of all opportunities to practise his Italian with anyone fortunate enough to cross his path. And an interesting thing happened; everyone seemed to welcome the opportunity to engage him in his pidginized attempts to communicate, no matter how inane the message. Furthermore, the more he massacred the language, the better his ability to communicate in Italian became and the more delighted the Italians were at his attempts to use their language. By the time he was ready to return to Australia, his confidence and his Italian proficiency were exploding. And his circle of Italian friends had expanded.
If we compare his experience with mine, a number of important lessons can be learned.
Second Language Learning Yields Social Benefits
There is no doubt that what made my brother-in-law’s experience more socially rich than mine were his attempts, however unsucessful they may have been, to learn and use the second language. Second language learning is more than just an attempt to learn another ethnic group’s communication system; it carries the message that the users of the second language are worth making the effort to engage in communication on their own terms. English speakers are notorious for expecting the whole world to speak English. The fact that English is the second language of most of the world is irrelevant to the issue of the social significance of language use. The Italian is not blind to the implications of the native English speaker expecting (almost as a God-given right) to be understood in Italy.
Why do I so enjoy my time spent in France? There is no doubt in my mind that it’s because I speak French. Why does one hear so often from English speakers that the French are arrogant? Perhaps it’s a reaction against the arrogance of the English speaker who expects the French in France to speak English. I haven’t found the French to be particularly arrogant as a people. That is not to say that I haven’t met the occasional arrogant Frenchman. But I suspect we could say the same about any ethnic group. We can never know a people until we interact with them socially and we can’t really interact with them socially until we make an attempt to speak their language.
Once the social benefits of second language learning start to flow, a range of other benefits follow inevitably, such as the cultural, the intellectual, and the economic. Each of these represents great riches that await us when we embark on the learning of a second language. But because a language is a social thing, it is the social aspect that needs to be given top priority and it is this aspect that makes second language learning such a potentially enjoyable process. © Gary Birch. March, 2010











